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Old Maid Cat Lady is your home for all things "cat"!

We currently have over 2,600 products for cats and for people who love them, with more being added all the time. You can shop by category, browse through all the products for cats, all the products for people, or do a specific search for exactly what you need. Roll over the menu to the left to see a flyout list of sub-categories for each main one.

Products are shipped directly to you from our suppliers. All those things you can't find for cats in the pet supply stores? We share your frustration and have made it our mission to find them for you.

If you're new to the cat-ownership world, you'll also find lots of helpful information on cat care and behavior here. Many category pages have articles, there's an informative blog, and also free downloadable brochures that can be copied or printed by shelters, cat rescue groups, pet sitters, or veterinarians to help educate people about cats.

Don't see what you want? Fill out the Product Request form on our home page and we'll track it down for you. We want your shopping experience with us to be fun and hassle free!  If it's anything less, please e-mail us to let us know how we can improve for your next visit.


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Calm Me Down Calming CollarCalm Me Down Calming CollarAn all-natural herbal solution for stressed kitties!
In Memory of Vixen

In Memory of Vixen

Memorial for my beloved cat Vixen

Calm Me Down Calming Collar

Calm Me Down Calming Collar

Calm Me Down Calming Collar
American FlagsBlue BandanaBlue SwirlsBones and HeartsJolly RogerLeopardMixed Blue Paw PrintsPaw Prints on BlackPink Paw PrintPurple Paw PrintRed BandanaRed and White Paws on BlackRoyal Blue Paw PrintsSnowflakesSteel Blue Paw PrintsTeal and TurquoiseHere's how the Double-Channel collar looks.
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Does your cat freak out during the holidays, during storms, or when people visit? Or perhaps when you go to the vet or have to travel? Or even suffer from separation anxiety when you leave for work? A Calming Collar may be just the solution for you!

Based on aromatherapy, the ratio of herbs in this proprietary Calm Me Down blend has been developed over many years. It includes dried lavender, chamomile, and balsam. The design has even been issued a patent! The collar is filled with high-quality herbs that will not harm your cat, even if eaten.

Each Calming Collar is custom made by hand to order for your cat, and typically ships to you about a week after your order is placed. This ensures maximum potency of the herbs within it.

The Single-Channel collar is the best size for most cats, but larger cats with longer necks may benefit from the double-channel width. On most cats, that design would be almost like a collar to prevent grooming after surgery or due to injury. Many of the images show the double-channel design because that one makes it easier to see the pattern on the fabric.

Sizing is by neck circumference measurement:
Size Neck Measurement
Extra Small 7" - 11"
Small 11" - 15"
Medium 15" - 18"
Large 18" - 22"
Extra Large 22" - 26"

Double-channel collars and sizes Medium and above are a slightly higher price; see the drop-down menu in the ordering area below for details.

Fabrics are all 100% cotton fabrics in the prints shown. If you prefer a solid color, specify it in the custom area; most solid color fabrics are on hand.

To use the collar, put it on your cat about 20-30 minutes before the stressful event occurs. Once the time of stress is over, remove the collar and store it in a sealed plastic bag. When used this way, the herbs in the collar will last about a year. The collar may be worn all the time, if your cat is chronically stressed, but the herbs will not last as long as when you pack it away in between uses, due to exposure to the air. If worn all the time, the herbs will remain potent for 3-4 months.

What customers are saying:
"So today we had a whopper of a storm here in Scottsdale, AZ. Cora, who usually goes and hides in the bathroom during a storm, actually sat in the window and watched! The Calming Collar actually worked! Thank You!" - Donna 

"Thank you again for your WONDERFUL Calming Collars. They DO work and they work VERY well. I have a small feral colony and one of those ferals actually sleeps tightly hugging his Calming Collar(I will try to snap a pic one of these days). Also have a T.N.R. feral who came to me to socialize & get adopted out. Well after working with her with a Calming Collar helping a lot she decided to adopt us! Darn Calming Collar worked too good with her! Thanks again!" - Kathy 

"I received the collar today and it worked instantly. The Vet wanted to try her on kitty prozac. That would have been $40 a month for the rest of her life. This is all natural and works better. Thank you."
- Terri

What are you waiting for?! Your kitty needs this calming collar, stat! (Oh, and it also works on dogs, if you have a nervous one of those.)



We're a small business, founded by a genuine old maid cat lady who loves her cats the same as if they were her children, just like you do yours. All products are shipped directly to you from our suppliers; we don't maintain any inventory. This eliminates double shipping, warehousing and staffing that would drive up costs, allowing us to price our items as reasonably as possible. When it comes to shipping, we charge you only what our suppliers charge us to ship the items to you. If our suppliers include shipping in the prices of the items, we offer the same to you. We are committed to making our site accessible to all. If you have problems navigating our site, please contact us and we will meet with our site hosting company to fix the problem. We try to treat all our customers the way we'd like to be treated ourselves, and appreciate your taking the time to get to know us a little. If you'd like to know more, click on the "About Us" link in the menu.

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